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The Gift of Certainty:

The Lesson of Terri Schiavo

Week of February 28, 2005

 

            “I don’t believe in life insurance.  When I die, I want it to be a real tragedy.” –

            Dr. Wayne Dyer (attributed)

 

            I could swear I heard George Carlin utter that line back in the days when his act was clean enough for television (that dates me), but a Google search turned up only Dr. Dyer.  Whoever said it, it is clear to anyone following the Terri Schiavo case that there are bigger tragedies than shuffling off one’s mortal coil uninsured. 

            Terri Schiavo is the Florida woman at the core of a legal battle between her husband and parents over the feeding tube that has kept her alive for 15 years.  Her husband wants the tube gone; her parents want it to stay. 

            Apart from those basic facts there is little agreement between Michael Schiavo and Bob and Mary Schindler.  Associated Press reports Schiavo’s coma was triggered by a heart attack, which husband Michael says was brought on by an eating disorder.  The Schindlers deny their daughter had such a disorder and claim the Florida Department of Health cleared Schiavo’s doctor of any wrongdoing or negligence leading to her coma at age 26.

            The Schindlers claim Schiavo’s doctors found mended bones and other evidence of abuse and imply that may have triggered the coma, which Michael Schiavo strongly denies.  Michael Schiavo believes his wife is unaware of her surroundings; the Schindlers say she recognizes them and others and have produced photos of her laughing with her mother.  Michael claims his wife is brain dead, while doctors hired by the Schindlers say she is not and have recommended therapy.

            Nor is there agreement on what Schiavo herself would want, with her husband claiming she told him she was against life-prolonging measures like feeding tubes and the Schindlers asserting she would have wanted to live.  Whatever she wanted – or wants – a judge has stayed the removal of the feeding tube until March 18, when, barring another courtroom victory by the Schindlers, the process of death by starvation and dehydration will legally begin.

            I’m no doctor and won’t try to play one in the newspaper but I feel competent to diagnose the Schiavo case as a mess, with side complications of tragedy.  Fortunately, it doesn’t have to happen again.

            In 1990, shortly after Schiavo’s coma began, Congress enacted the “Patient Self-Determination Act” requiring virtually all healthcare facilities to provide patients a statement of their rights, which includes the right to make an advance directive (or living will) in accordance with state laws.  Advance directives spell out individuals’ desires in the event they cannot communicate and designate a person to make decisions in circumstances not covered by the directive.

            If Terri Schiavo had an advance directive we would have never heard of her.  She may have never heard of advance directives, but under current federal law almost everyone today will be informed of them at one time or another. 

            Acting on the opportunity, however, is another matter.  Many see advance directives as something for the elderly but the Schiavo case argues otherwise, as does my own family’s experience. 

            My brother-in-law died at the age of 37 in 1991.  He had signed an advance directive, leaving no questions about his wishes when he could no longer communicate.  I executed one myself before surgery a few years later, and my wife did one at the same time.

            The Schiavo case has launched debates on everything from euthanasia to the rights of the handicapped and incapacitated.  Those questions will not die with Terri Schiavo but if there is one universal lesson here it is the need for all adults to make their wishes legally known and binding. 

            Do it is a gift to yourself and your family.  Your doctor will have the forms.

 

 

 

 
 

 

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