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Gov and Marriage:

Like a Horse and Carriage?

Week of January 6, 2003

 

            It seems the only thing worse than a politician who doesn’t keep promises is one who does.  Accordingly, the Bush administration should expect plenty of flak over the announcement of $2.2 million in Department of Health and Human Services grants for programs to improve child welfare.

            Horror of horrors, some of the money will go to faith-based organizations, as pledged during the 2000 presidential campaign.  To make maters worse, a portion of the funding will go to programs aimed at strengthening marriage.

            By Washington standards $2.2 million doesn’t rise to the level of chicken feed, but there are critical principles at stake.  I have my own qualms about governmental faith-based initiatives, revolving around where ones’ faith lies when one depends on tax dollars.  However the noisiest objections waft from the separation-of-church-and-state camp.

            Their fears are understandable.  The “separation” concept is nowhere to be found in the Constitution, having been established by judicial decree rather than the Founders or by amendment.  When you live by the courts you die by the courts; a legal challenge could potentially result in a shift toward the Constitution’s original intent, which would never do. 

            But this is old hat.  A fresher approach, typified by Americans United for Separation of Church and State, is to question the value of marriage to a civil society at all.  Spokesman Robert Boston told The Associated Press “Whether a person gets married or stays married is none of the government’s business … it feels paternalistic for government to be interfering.”

            For paternalism in action, take a hard look at the programs geared toward cleaning up the debris of our weakened marriage culture.  Study after study has found higher rates of child abuse and neglect, domestic violence, and poverty in “nontraditional” families.  Pointing this out is a fine way to get treated to an email flambé, but, in the words of John Adams, “Facts are stubborn things.” 

            If Mr. Boston and his group favor dropping the remedial social programs as well, they’ve kept it a guarded secret.  If government intrusion were its real concern, Americans United for Separation of Church and State would be fired up to dismantle the Department of Health and Human Services, not protesting the involvement of faith organizations.

            America benefits from healthy families both socially and financially, and while government’s proper role is fair game for debate, a $2.2 million ounce of prevention makes considerably more sense than the pounds of cure that are currently expended.  But why turn to religious groups? 

            Sandra Bender is Director of the Marriage Coalition, a group awarded $200,000 to test a course for impoverished single parents that would stress marriage and child support.  The organization is composed of clergy from various denominations, mental health professionals, and others who design and sponsor educational programs intended to cut the divorce rate and reduce the incidence of out-of-wedlock births. 

             “Seventy-five percent of people who get married get married at churches so that’s where our customers are,” Bender told AP, sounding like the Willie Sutton of the marriage preservation business.  Sutton, you may recall, is reputed to have claimed he robbed banks because “that’s where the money is.”

            One can reasonably question the merits of government sponsored premarital counseling, but if it’s going to happen, where would you look for people to counsel if not in churches?  The Department of Motor Vehicles? 

            Misgivings over the government’s role aside, marriage as an institution is more worthy of tax dollars than a host of other real and perceived problems we smother with dollars, and a part for faith-based organizations only makes sense.  Perhaps we’ve grown unaccustomed to that in public policy, but I suspect we could get used to it.

 

 

 
 

 

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